If your heart is set on dating ladyboys, you have probably heard many success stories between ladyboys and men from the Western world. That said, if searching for love online, there are ups and downs. Along with those who have been very successful in finding true love, there are others that have dealt with some kind of fraud or scam. Unfortunately, like other scams found on the internet, if you are not careful it can end up costing your life savings. Let alone a broken heart. In most cases, if you are lucky, you will only end up wasting your precious time and nothing more. So how do you protect yourself from the many forms of manipulation and how to not fall into an unwanted trap?
First, we are not generalizing because most ladyboys are really decent people who are looking for long-term relationships and their feelings are just as valuable as your own. Keep in mind, as most ladyboys come from southeastern Asian countries that have poor economies, you must be aware of the people you are meeting and talking to because there will always be ladyboys who are just in it for the money.
Keep in mind, there are many scammers and frauds who live in the Philippines and they speak English very well, unlike some others in Asian countries. It’s very easy for them to communicate with men from English-speaking countries.
Another fact to take into consideration, this country’s average salary is around $200 and the people here have to work really hard to earn that salary. Therefore, most ladyboys will try to find the easiest way to make money and moral values do not come into play. Some ladyboys have literally no other choice in order to survive. Adding to that, being a prostitute is not appealing to everyone.
A typical scenario is someone meeting a ladyboy online, they chat back and forth for a while and then there is building chemistry between them. At some point, she asks you to send her money under any number of reasons. It could be to pay for her internet service, other bills, a relative in the hospital who needs medications. Or various medical treatments or even needs a new computer in order to continue communicating with each other. Maybe, her birthday is coming up and she can’t afford to celebrate. The list of reasons goes on and on, the bottom line, they are asking you for money! Sadly, if you are really hung up on this ladyboy, the thought of never communicating with her again and will ruin whatever happens between the two of you is unthinkable.
Sooner or later, the list of needs will go on and on and will be endless. The price tag for these needs will also grow beyond any reasonable amount! There is very little chance that you will know exactly what she is really spending this money or whether you are just one of several guys that are helping her out.
There could well be circumstances where your ladyboy really does need your help. Just be very careful about what you say in conversations, especially when it comes to your money. In most cases when dealing with a fraud, at some point you will figure out you are being scammed. The light usually comes on when they do not talk about anything but money!
Again, not all ladyboys are scammers and there really is no reason you should get into a conversation already assuming they are scammers! There are many ladyboys who are interested in foreign men who can give them the financial security they are looking for. But the same can be said about non-transgender girls as well. There are thousands of people looking for long-term relationships and are not “gold diggers”. The financial aspects of a relationship can be a far cry from what a ladyboy is looking for. Most Asian ladyboys are looking for long-term relationships and simply want someone to share their lives with and have a family.