I think it was last Tuesday or Wednesday I came across an advert for iDateLadyboy ladyboy dating site on the internet. Just in time for Valentine’s Day, the most romantic day of the year.
I didn’t open the link at first but seeing it really made me start thinking again. For quite some time, I’ve been contemplating finding out more about Ladyboys, and maybe dating one. Just never seemed to get around to it. I suppose starting on Valentine’s Day might be a good omen!
In fact, this germ of an idea crept into my mind some two or three years ago. But it needed something like seeing the advert for iDateLadyboy to bring it to the fore again. And what better time to find a new lover than on Valentine’s Day?
Ladyboys are fundamentally women
I’ve always been intrigued by men dressing and presenting as women. At first, I thought they might all just be gay men with a penchant for being feminine. Yet, later I learned that it really only drags performers who are more likely to be gay. Ladyboys or Trans women are something else. There are many ways of putting it but, in reality, they are women trapped in men’s bodies. Or in some cases, their bodies are not so manly, they just have an extra appendage between their legs. And many see themselves as heterosexual, that is women who like men.
Last year, just after Valentine’s Day, when I had time, I researched what it means to be Transgender. I learned about Ladyboys from Thailand, Trans-pinays from the Philippines and Trans women from the UK or Holland or South America. My conclusion? Ladyboys are fundamentally women. No matter whether they have corrective surgeries or not, they are emotionally and, deep down inside, females. It’s just, in my opinion, that they are generally more attractive and take better care of themselves.
Yes, I’ve had genetic girlfriends. Funnily enough, I started dating one such woman close to Valentine’s Day a few years back. A couple of other such liaisons developed into medium-term relationships but they finally seemed to peter out. I’m not sure why, maybe we just grew apart.
Now, I’m ready to date again and I just need to get enough courage to date a Ladyboy. And make sure I find the right lady. I love to travel and have been to both Thailand and The Philippines, which some say are the “home of the Ladyboy”. I know the difference between Ladyboys (or Katoeys) as they are sometimes called and Trans-pinay. I have seen several of the famous Ladyboy cabaret shows in Pattaya and Manila and am always astonished at just how feminine and beautiful these Trans women are. I also like the way they theme their shows for Thai New Year or Valentine’s Day for example.
Ladyboys have special characteristics
I have also met a number of Ladyboys in the ubiquitous bars and clubs in both cities but I am realistic to know that it’s going to be far better to meet a T-girl who leads a more regular life. Having said that, I have been impressed by the Ladyboys I’ve met. Many seem to have faced and conquered a lot of challenges in their life. Also, a number of them have good academic qualifications.
I’ve not had a close enough relationship with a Ladyboy yet but some other men I’ve met online tell me that Trans women have fewer mood swings than genetic women. Then, there is no time of the month issue to deal with. Plus, and I don’t know if this is true, but Ladyboys have a greater sex drive than most other women. This might be as they still have residual testosterone in their bodies, even though they may be taking female hormones. Of course, if the Ladyboy still has her penis, there are more options in the bedroom!
All I need to do now is decide if I really do want to date a Ladyboy. As I said earlier, maybe Valentine’s Day is the best day to start looking seriously.
Online dating is the best way to meet the perfect Ladyboy
One thing I am sure about is that using a Trans dating site such as iDateLadyboy is the best way to achieve my goals. By just quickly looking at the huge variety of Ladyboy profiles on the site makes me confident I can find a T-girl who is right for me. Once I have joined the site, I can make contact with as many Ladyboys as I like. Especially as many of the ladyboys will also be looking to find a new man on Valentine’s Day.
Ha…, I’ve just read what I’ve written… seems like I’m trying to rationalize what I want to do! Okay no more procrastination, that’s it, I’m joining iDateLadyboy right now, in good time for Valentine’s Day! And get started on finding my dream Ladyboy for February 14th, the day of love!